I agreed with what it's saying, but I never thought that I would ever have to employ it. Just goes to show how little faith I have left in those I thought I could trust.
Thank you for showing me that. I feel like I have to put up that barrier as well. It seems that we are both losing faith in those we trusted most. *Hugs*
Don't worry. You are strong and you will survive. I have faith in you.
Oooh...we will survive...as long as we know how to love we know we will survive. 'Cause I got all my love to give, and I got all my life to give, and something something something something..heeey! I will survive.
Sorry, but that has nothing to do with anything in reality. Whether you have a disclaimer up or not, this is not a private domain, therefore, you can't restrict who reads or does not read and who comments or does not comment. Actually, you can restrict both of those if you choose to. But, legally, while you keep it public, and keep comments open, as long as someone is not actually harrassing you or stalking you, there is no legality against them making positive or negative comments. That is the point of a public journal. For other people to read and make comments. If you only want sheltered or moderated comments, then make it friends only or private. Otherwise, liberty will always lead to excess. As the cliche goes. If you can't stand the heat, get out of the kitchen. If you can't stand people you don't like making comments, then don't have a OPEN and PUBLIC journal.
Basically, John, your whole beef with me is the fact that I ranted about people in my public journal. Yeah, I'm allowed to fucking do that. Why? BECAUSE IT'S MY FUCKING JOURNAL. If I REALLY didn't want them to see it, yeah, I would've made it private. But I DIDN'T. So maybe I wanted them to see it. If they didn't see it now, then they would've seen it later. The fact that they saw it at THIS PARTICULAR MOMENT just prolongs our conflict. If it had been months later, maybe what I wrote wouldn't matter. Because it was in the past. We deal with anger differently. In my opinion, you get all pretentious, and pretend to be apathetic towards the whole situation. I, on the other hand, like to rant. Once it goes from my head to my fingertips, I feel better. I can go back to the situation with a clearer head. The anger is transcribed onto the website, and once the situation has passed, I can truly say that what I wrote was said in anger and ignorance and I'm ready to move on. THAT'S WHAT A JOURNAL'S FUCKING FOR. I rant about people, and people provide support, advice, or even criticism. You may notice that I banned you. You're only prolonging the situation by continuing to attack my point of view. I suggest that instead of attacking me, you go somehow comfort Aimee. Provide her with some support. Because in the future, you will be in MY position, and I will be in yours. So get the FUCK off your high horse and leave me alone.
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Date: 2004-09-18 08:40 pm (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2004-09-18 08:46 pm (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2004-09-18 08:50 pm (UTC)Just goes to show how little faith I have left in those I thought I could trust.
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Date: 2004-09-18 09:07 pm (UTC)Don't worry. You are strong and you will survive. I have faith in you.
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Date: 2004-09-18 09:10 pm (UTC)You are strong too, Ali.
We'll get through this.. and when it's all over, we'll be stronger.
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Date: 2004-09-19 09:11 am (UTC)Oooh...we will survive...as long as we know how to love we know we will survive. 'Cause I got all my love to give, and I got all my life to give, and something something something something..heeey! I will survive.
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Date: 2004-09-18 11:41 pm (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2004-09-19 01:10 am (UTC)If I REALLY didn't want them to see it, yeah, I would've made it private. But I DIDN'T. So maybe I wanted them to see it. If they didn't see it now, then they would've seen it later. The fact that they saw it at THIS PARTICULAR MOMENT just prolongs our conflict.
If it had been months later, maybe what I wrote wouldn't matter. Because it was in the past.
We deal with anger differently. In my opinion, you get all pretentious, and pretend to be apathetic towards the whole situation. I, on the other hand, like to rant. Once it goes from my head to my fingertips, I feel better. I can go back to the situation with a clearer head. The anger is transcribed onto the website, and once the situation has passed, I can truly say that what I wrote was said in anger and ignorance and I'm ready to move on.
THAT'S WHAT A JOURNAL'S FUCKING FOR.
I rant about people, and people provide support, advice, or even criticism.
You may notice that I banned you. You're only prolonging the situation by continuing to attack my point of view.
I suggest that instead of attacking me, you go somehow comfort Aimee. Provide her with some support.
Because in the future, you will be in MY position, and I will be in yours.
So get the FUCK off your high horse and leave me alone.
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Date: 2004-09-19 01:10 am (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2004-09-20 06:34 pm (UTC)